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Being in a Relationship Doesn’t Fix Internal Struggles!

You may love God, have a relationship with God, and be sold out for God, but that doesn’t mean you don’t struggle or have issues or insecurities, and just because you have a relationship with God, doesn’t exempt you from having problems in your relationship. You’re human, and as humans we all have situations, circumstances, and problems that impact our ability to develop a healthy and loving relationship. It’s important to recognize and acknowledge your issues, deal with them, and overcome them so you can learn to develop a healthy relationship, and/or improve your current relationship.

For example, if you’re insecure now, you will be insecure in your relationship. Being in a relationship doesn’t fix insecurities, it only maximizes them, and takes them to another level. If you are insecure about who you are as a person, if you struggle with low self-esteem and self-confidence issues, if you always have something negative to say about yourself, and you have a difficult time accepting compliments, you will continue to struggle in these areas when you get into a relationship.

Being in a relationship doesn’t fix internal struggles, and getting into a relationship when you’re broken, hurt, mad, frustrated, disappointed, and hopeless, will impact your ability to develop a healthy relationship and impact your ability to sustain your current relationship.

Dr. LaWanda N. Evans



About the Author

Dr. LaWanda N. EvansDr. LaWanda N. Evans empowers and encourages women to love themselves, make healthy relationship decisions, and embrace positive changes in life that lead to happiness and improvement in their emotional and mental health. She encourages women to believe in themselves, to reach their full potential, to achieve their goals, provides practical solutions for dealing with relationship issues, and helps them identify and overcome obstacles that impact their personal and professional growth, develop, and success. Dr. Evans specializes in helping women overcome unhealthy relationship patterns and relationship struggles, avoid relationship pitfalls, and teaches women how to overcome hurt and let go of the past to embrace and make room for the relationship God has for them. She helps women decrease, manage, and overcome depression and stress, become emotionally and mentally healthy, and builds their self-esteem and self-confidence. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, National Certified Counselor, Relationship Strategist, Speaker, Contributing Expert Writer for, Advocate for Youth Suicide Prevention, and owner of LNE Unlimited - Counseling and Emotional Wellness and the creator of The Truth About Your Relationship. Dr. Evans transforms the lives of women through counseling, coaching, speaking, and writing.View all posts by Dr. LaWanda N. Evans »

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